I posted this link on the Trans Widow thread, but thought it might be useful to have a separate thread as well.
The 1st programme does show the shock and pain women and families go through and also shows the confusion for everyone concerned, ie wife saying "am I a lesbian now?", while looking at someone who is clearly masculine and male presenting. One of the trans women clearly being upset by wife's friend, because she calls them out on their bad behaviour, but mostly because she calls them "ugly old woman".