I cannot stand the Guardian any more because of sh*t like this. It will not allow anyone to write anything gender critical nor will it even allow comments. How did it get to a point where a supposedly left-wing newspaper just prints piece after piece which deny women a voice.
She has missed the point on many levels. 'Oppressed by gender' is in the byline - well, no, oppressed by biology. That is the point! So many women are not buying into gender crap but just for example say an equally qualified and experienced man and woman go for a job. They are in their mid-30s. Both have shiny new wedding rings on. 'Better select him' says the boss 'She'll be up the duff before the year's out.' That is biology not gender.
And yes of course men can have empathy with women, and that is great - but we have women's officers, BAME officers, LGBTetc (not being rude I just can't remember all of the initials) from those groups to ensure representation for as wide a variety of people as possible. This is why not all those positions are open to white straight 50+ men. I am sure lots of those men could think of the needs and experiences of women, BAME people, LBGT people - but as a society, we have chosen to ask people from those specific groups to best represent them (this seems to be universal when representation is needed iyswim - university, politics, unions, etc).
Sorry I am waffling. Very much heartened by the peak transing that is going on, by the solidarity on here and by my experiences in real life (friends, DH, parents, my MP, teachers at my kids' school) but the Guardian is being wilfully obtuse and refusing to engage properly with the frankly very intelligent discussions that lots of women would like to have. And it makes me sad, and ANGRY!
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