So any man who works part time is only doing so because he is unable to work FT, i mean why else would a man not have a FT job ? I don't think we can say that with any authority. Also the "whataboutery" being displayed here is fairly typical, i.e. "it doesn't matter and its only because these don't want a FT job". "All PT jobs are shite and men dont want them, what about why mostly women do them"
No. That's not what I said.
I said, that most of the men I know who work part time are doing so whilst looking for full time work. There are also women in this position, but personally, in my life I have known 2 men who worked part time out of choice (outside of students), and one of these men took seasonal, minimum wage work, one works 3 days a week at his career, as does his wife. This is bar work, shop work, picking etc. Jobs that are relatively plentiful, and aren't viewed as a career (unless you want them to be, and move into management)
Of the women I know who work part time (outside of students), they are all working part time in the same jobs they were working in pre-children, or in career-style jobs such as Teaching Assistant. Alternatively they're in free-lance type stuff, such as childminding or cleaning.
Ie. the exact opposite of your last sentence.
Sure, there are plenty of shite part time jobs. But the reason I think women's part time jobs are better paid is because they were often full time jobs which the women have made part time jobs, and the stats show that full time jobs are better paid.
More men than women are in full time employment by a large margin, and it's the reverse in part time. I agree that society needs to change to allow more of these men to go part time and get a better balance (also, incidentally, thus opening more higher paid part time roles for other people to take up) - but it's not women doing that to them, they have to actually ask for it in order for it to happen - just as women have.