I don't believe for a second somebody actually emailed that to Deirdre. They just make it up, don't they?
And is it too 'out there' to feel that this sort of thing acts as fantasy fodder for a certain kind of bloke? (See how they kindly provide a picture to illustrate just how non-traumatic rape is - one they could just as well use for a 'nice' threesome story any other day.)
Ugh.