Now, I have not read many parenting books since pregnant with Ds1, but this jumped out at me at the library [[http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/search/ref=pd_lpo_ix_dp_am_us_uk_en_my.020mother.020wears.020combat.020boots.020book_gl_book?keywords=my%20mother%20wears%20combat%20boots%20book&tag=lpo_ixdpamusukenmy.020mother.020wears.020combat.020boots.020bookgl_book-21&index=blendedhere]] Any book which has a sidebar on how fathers can slap the face of the patriarchy is agood thing IMHO