Could a hysteroscopy or weight gain affect vaginal size?

[Romancingthestone]

Hi,

I’m just randomly thinking, after being told I have a big vagina, by someone I’ve been intimate with recently, whether that may be as a result of being stretched whilst having a hysteroscopy in the past.? (was performed under General as I just screamed the clinic down when they tried at a 1st gynae appt)

I’m kind of upset at this big remark because up until my 40’s I couldn’t tolerate piv, have birthed no children, never successfully worn a tampon, my first smear was aged 38 and 1st internal scan 41 and only then if I could have left it I probably would.

Also I’ve gotten a little chunkier (weight wise) and again it makes me wonder if being overweight causes a big pubic area?

I also had a uterine fibroid disappear without treatment in the not so long past (gave symptoms for couple of years and then one day I was symptomless with periods returning regular as clockwork which makes me now wonder was that hanging around years.

Maybe I should quip back be grateful I’m not in menopause and drier than the desert!

Your vagina isn't big. He is small.

(sorry, I have nothing more useful to add, but how rude! Women come in all shapes and sizes).

Well I’m actually not sure about whether a hysteroscopy can but I suspect not.

Just wanted to pop on to say that if ANYBODY commented on the size of my vagina after intimacy then they would be told to Fuck Off to the Far Side of Fuck and then Fuck Off some more.

Not sure who told you this, OP but I suggest you throw him back.
And no, it doesnt. None of that stuff affects your actual vagina.

If the person you were intimate had the audacity to say that with so little respect and appreciation for you, they don't deserve another go.

Sure women vary in size- so do men. But the cheek of him to assume it's a you problem and not him. Bin him and find a better one.

I think it's more likely that the problem is his tiny penis.

I’d be telling him you’ve been checked out and they told you it’s definitely him that’s too small. Ask if he’s ever considered penis enlargement or if he’s happy to keep disappointing women.

He’s trying to make you feel like shit. Do it back and then dump him immediately. Then block his number.

It was a bit of a race from a few of us to respond first! I hope that resounding vote helps, OP!

Also, it's probably a porn problem from him gripping too hard and not being with a person.

I’ve had three children, and a hystericopingagram (sp?!) AND I’m a lot chunky and I haven’t notice ginormous amounts of “loosening” Absolutely my husband would never ever comment on this even if he did feel it!

please don’t give this dickwad any more thought.

Omg!
dont give him a second thought! ….. apart to bin!

Honestly I reckon he is insecure about his penis size and trying to put that onto you. And he's a twat too. I'd be telling him that's the last time he'll ever experience it.

Thank you all, he looks quite endowed when erect which lead me to ask asking before we even went to deep can he ensure he can get a finger in.

Then Sunday after directly asking I am told he didn’t come.
Wish he were into porn inside of the rubbish play he is into.

Can only imagine he is looking for excuses as he also said he was surprised I wanted to sleep with him so soon, I mean when a bloke strips off in front of you without being asked whether you feel comfortable, I’m not shouldering all of the blame.

He is nero diverse if I’m being hard and while communication is key, it feels one sided like I do all the asking. Dad has tried to train him to make a cup of coffee or help with dishes after I’ve prepped and cooked meal but it is hard.