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Chair period stain at work...

42 replies

Sliverofdarkness · 27/05/2026 13:34

Help, I am freaking out. First day of period, usually it's quite light but I used a night pad as all I had, thought all was fine, I was super busy in work, at my desk all morning and now I pop home for lunch to find blood has leaked right through my trousers, pad is totally soaked. I'm freaking out that the light grey chair I sit on in the office has blood stains on it now. I work with nearly all men so it's obviously me. What can I do?? Or say if there's blood stains on the chair... Has this happened to anyone before? I'm so embarrassed.

OP posts:
sillyrubberduck · 27/05/2026 16:48

Ragamuffin8 · 27/05/2026 13:49

Can you discreetly clean the chair? Or spill coffee on it & then clean it?

For next time I recommend period pants combined with your normal sanitary items. It’s a game changer and I never leak now.

The spilt coffee tip is great. I’m stealing it if ever happens to me

WonderingWanda · 27/05/2026 16:55

Don't forget to clean blood with cold water or you will set the stain. I would give it a clean at the end of the day with quite a bit of water and let it dry overnight. Bring a hand towel tomorrow in case it hasn't quite dried.

Perfect28 · 27/05/2026 19:02

You really need to be ashamed of this.

Twisterlollies · 27/05/2026 19:06

Perfect28 · 27/05/2026 19:02

You really need to be ashamed of this.

Are you always this pathetic?

Perfect28 · 27/05/2026 19:15

Twisterlollies · 27/05/2026 19:06

Are you always this pathetic?

Arrgh I mean to type needn't 🤣

agggtm · 27/05/2026 20:23

Perfect28 · 27/05/2026 19:15

Arrgh I mean to type needn't 🤣

😂

Twisterlollies · 27/05/2026 20:34

Perfect28 · 27/05/2026 19:15

Arrgh I mean to type needn't 🤣

Oh 😂😂 in that case, retracted!

Thecomedyclub · 27/05/2026 20:37

TwinklyRoseTurtle · 27/05/2026 14:25

Get some M&S stain wipes go back and scrub it ( in privacy obv)

Oh my! Only learned about these today on the Luxury Pod!! Apparently a gamechanger and I’m getting these next time I’m in town.

Laurmolonlabe · 27/05/2026 22:52

Throughly damp a towel cover the area in salt it will leech the stain out then more towels cloths to get the wet out. when it's just damp use a stain remover or dry cleaning fluid. Alternatively if you or a friend/relative are crafty make a cover and elasticate around- a cool print would be favourite- good luck.

Confuserr · 27/05/2026 22:54

Perfect28 · 27/05/2026 19:15

Arrgh I mean to type needn't 🤣

Lolllll

Floppyearedlab · 27/05/2026 23:01

Unless your workmates are 12 year old boys, you don’t need to worry. They probably wouldn’t notice (who notices other people’s chairs).
I agree with the idea of accidentally spilling something else on it.
And hope you are ok. Such heavy periods must be draining.

Mcdhotchoc · 27/05/2026 23:35

I had horrendous periods before the best day of my life which was a hysterectomy! I was adept at carrying a dark lightweight scarf/cardi which I put down before I sat down!
At 2 different employers I was the one protesting at light grey as the choice for the chair with very graphic reasoning!

CoverLikelyZebra · 27/05/2026 23:39

It happened to me. It was the first "normal" period after a miscarriage. No one said anything. I went in early next day with a roll of kitchen roll. Soak the stain with cold water then soak it up with kitchen roll. Repeat until the soaked up liquid is clear. Squeeze down with kitchen roll until there's nothing more to soak up.

Lunbellerosa · 28/05/2026 13:34

I had this happen to me at work, luckily it was a school plastic chair but I was so embarrassed, luckily I managed to clean it without anyone being aware. I always put my jacket or cardigan down on the chair when I had my period as an extra layer from then on. Maybe get some period pants as well as an extra layer along with your pad.

Coconutter24 · 28/05/2026 13:49

MissMoneyFairy · 27/05/2026 13:55

Has the chair got a bloodstain? With the lady in her 70s with possibly blood stains on her dress its unlikely to be s period, I would have told her and offered help especially if it was fresh blood.

The poster didn’t say anything about bloodstains

JanFebAndOnwards · 24/06/2026 21:40

BauhausOfEliott · 27/05/2026 14:07

Nobody is having their period at 70 ffs.

A few women are still menstruating at 72!
No, I wouldn’t have believed it had I not known one…

Pistachiocake · 24/06/2026 21:49

Mischance · 27/05/2026 14:47

I think you need to be open about this. No woman should be ashamed about her periods. Just say "Oh heck; I'm on my period and have leaked into the chair. I need to take it away to clean it."

Five of my GC are boys and none of them would bat an eyelid if they were to hear this, so hopefully grown adults in the workplace would be able to cope. I remember one at the age of 5 asking my DD if her period was due as she was a bit ratty and giving her a hug.

This is the 21st century!

True, but some people giggle or make gag sounds about those who have GI issues/colostomy bags, so it depends on the kind of people you work with.
OP, I came on to say that if you are suddenly heavier than usual, you might want to get it checked out. Really hope you don't mind me saying, but this might help you or other people on here- I put up with suddenly heavy periods for a while and it turned out to be something I should have got sorted out sooner.

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