I have name changed for this but I can assure you I am a very old regular on here.
Yesterday, I had the urge to urinate and because I knew if I did not tense my muscles (pull up pelvic floor) I was going to wet myself before I got to the loo. That did not help and quite a lot of wee came out. I immediately went to the loo but then found I could not go at all. Whilst sitting on the loo, the shooting pain I was experiencing was excruciating. I ended up going lie on the bed and trying "mind over matter" and really trying to get my abdomen to relax.
Long story short, I did eventually fall asleep but was up and down in the night going to the loo and feeling oh so cold.
This morning, the pain is there but nowhere near as painful as yesterday. I feel as if I need to do an enormous blow off but that is not happening either.
Not sure what I want from you all but if anyone has had this, what worked for you to get rid of the pain.