Anterior Prolapse Repair Op - sh*tting myself

[Honeysucklelane]

Not literally….which is the whole problem.

I’ve been on the waiting list 18 months now and been given a date in a couple of weeks to have the repair op.

Having been warned by the doctor it’s a really painful thing to recover from I am panicking. I hate being ill / in pain as it is.

I also worry about things like dying (and leaving my children without a mother) or ending up with worse problems (unable to have sex etc) just for the sake of fixing this issue.

I know. It’s two posters who’ve made that mistake.

There’s been absolutely nothing wrong with anything you’ve written, you’ve even thanked people for their input, and I’m sorry you’ve been dragged into this.

Honeysucklelane

can I PM you?

I do stand by my comment even if it referenced the wrong poster.

@Honeysucklelane I am a little concerned that if you postpone the surgery it could be ages till
you get another date, is there any chance of delaying the holiday a bit instead?

Yes of course

I was offered a February date but had just started a new job and couldn’t take 4-6 weeks off.

Then offered 22nd July just over a week ago, but I was away last week and couldn’t go to the pre-op assessment so they had to cancel.

Now got 31st, but going away on 16th August.

Oh what a pain, but it sounds as though cancellations probably come up fairly regularly. You might be ok on the holiday if you don't drive and take it really easy. But it might not be much fun.

Sorry OP that confusion was my fault. I have apologised in the thread already.

WOW!!….just WOW!!

I had two anterior repairs done many years ago. One when I was 25 and another when I was 30. They were the result of damage from child births..
Very unusual. So as I am 84 now you can imagine things are likely to be different and improved. However, I do remember the ops and the only significant problems were the no lifting for several weeks. In fact I was sent to convalescent home as the surgeon didn’t trust me not to lift my one year old and my three year old. He said if I didn’t go he would have to refuse permission for my discharge. So I had been in hospital for 3 weeks and convalescence for a further two.Unbelievable I know but that was how it was then. Even then I had to be very careful. It’s the lifting that you don’t want to do. So no lifting suitcases or pulling them along. Just plenty of rest and enjoy doing nothing but enjoy yourself.

@Weepixie
maybe it’s the stick up your arse that has cause the angle and size changes rather than your surgery!

Your post was anything BUT clear, complete with wrong word and vague explanation. And then your “wee bit of advice” was far more rude than the “blunt” question I had asked- which I didn’t think was rude rather just a brief question asking you to expand on how you felt things had changed internally. If you didn’t want questioned on this then why even comment in that nature?

Genuinely baffled by your response to my question, and I’m guessing I’m not going to get any further explanation about how your vagina has actually changed post-op. Contrary to your assumption google is not really appropriate for this situation… but thanks… 🙏🏻

It seems my first impression of you was spot on.

Yup. I’d say unclench, but maybe you can’t. I wouldn’t know as you never did answer the question.

Have you ever thought of calling yourself Weegremlin? You’re a nasty piece of work.

I am 55 and am worried about having this operation as what i believe i have been told is right is that it could leave my vagina either too loose or even too tight because of your own skins elasticity and how much it gets stretched and stitched up during the surgery. Which then can affect your sex life. I know it’s a sensitive subject but if you don’t mind replying weepixie is this what you have experienced. thank you