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TW: Pls help

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Gaya23 · 28/04/2024 04:45

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After childbirth husband went abroad for his job. He came last month again. He ask me to have sex everyday. I don't like it. Because he is doing it continuously six or seven in a row everyday. When I say it makes bad feeling for me, he forced do it. How can he do it. Ejaculate six times a row? I never see or heard about ejaculation six times a row everyday. Now I have stomachache. Backache. Yesterday he inserted into my anus forced when I am crying. Now I am bleeding. How can I say not to do it? He is giving money for me. Giving everything. But I don't like his sex activity. Please help.

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StopStartStop · 28/04/2024 04:53

You are being raped. Call the police and Women's Aid.

pinkwaterbottle9 · 28/04/2024 05:00

Yes you need to leave him. Now.

PinotPony · 28/04/2024 07:13

Your husband is raping you. What a disgusting man! Please seek help from your family or professionals and leave him.

Runningonempty01 · 28/04/2024 07:23

You are being raped multiple times, call the police, your husband is commiting the most awful crimes. Do you have a friend or a relative who will help you. Womens aid is a good idea. I'm sure more experienced posters will help suggest a plan of action. Sending you love and strength, this is not your fault.

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RaeMumsnet · 28/04/2024 09:56

Hi @Gaya23

We hope you don't mind, but when these threads are flagged to us, we like to share a link to our webguide, where you can get real-life support and advice.

We're going to move your thread over to our relationships topic, as we think you will receive a lot of support there.

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Runningonempty01 · 29/04/2024 18:29

Has this been moved, this poor women is an awful situation and is getting no replied?

Secondstart1001 · 29/04/2024 19:45

Hi there, you sound like you are in the U.K. with no family or support around and in an arranged marriage.

Your husband has no right to do what he’s doing to you. And he’s actually hurt you. This is rape and it sounds like you need help asap.

Do you take your baby to health visitors. This is a good way to report the abuse and get help in real life.

please seek medical attention if you are still bleeding and do not hesitate to call the police as he’s continuously raping you.

Secondstart1001 · 29/04/2024 19:46

Runningonempty01 · 29/04/2024 18:29

Has this been moved, this poor women is an awful situation and is getting no replied?

@Runningonempty01 this was exactly my thoughts. I don’t think it has tbh.

PinotPony · 29/04/2024 20:27

@RaeMumsnet Please can you move?

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