Vanilla sex makes me not want to enter into marriage after my 7-year relationship.

[Melisaaaaa]

Just confessing and complaining, but I think, eventually, I will marry my boyfriend.

So you think you will marry your boyfriend, even though you are sure you will be unhappy? Why would you do that?

I guess, its just hard to ditch a 7 yrs relationship.

But expect the sex, others are fine, or even more than fine!
He treats me very well, and we are like friends, shares everything together, no matter good things or bad things happens, he's always the first person that I want to share with, and he is the same.

Have you actually spoken to him about the sex?

What would you like to be doing instead? Have you communicated this?

Why wouldn't you try to address the issue rather than ask to shag someone else ?

7 years dissatisfaction with your sex life is but a drop in the ocean to a lifetime of disappointment @Melisaaaaa

Think about how you'd like it to change and take charge.

If that doesn't bring positive results, you really may need to re-think your relationship.

Good luck, it's totally fixable. 💐

Good sex comes down to communication.

If he doesn’t know the sex is dry or that you want something kinkier you’ll be bored forever.

Tell him you want to try some new stuff! Whip him (maybe literally) into what you need 😂😂