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Boyfriend upset me

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Cmr1200 · 19/06/2023 12:26

I'm currently 18 weeks pregnant. Last night I went out of the room and when I came back. I came back to my boyfriend shouting abuse at me he repeated told me to f off. Told me he hates me told me he never wants to see me again. I confronted him and he basically said I've seen your messages on WhatsApp. For starters I have never messaged my ex back I have his number on WhatsApp. Blocked on every other social network platform he sends me pictures of his dog and links to YouTube videos which I never respond back to. Because we didn't end on bad terms I didn't feel the need to block him, I did however respond once with a patronising message such a nice.
I told him all of this and his reaction is well why do you still have him on WhatsApp. He tells me I'm the stupidest person he has ever met. He wants his key back and he doesn't want to be with me anymore.
I have never had any one treat me like this in my life. I'm preganant and feel so alone. Apparently it's going to take him a long time to trust me again when I basically haven't done anything wrong.
I cannot be dealing wirh this at the moment with the situation I'm in and don't know what to do anymore.

OP posts:
Cmr1200 · 19/06/2023 12:27

He also said he is going to start messaging his ex
When all she ever did was treat him like shit and apparently I'm the bad person here

OP posts:
backinthebox · 19/06/2023 12:30

Tricky when you are pregnant but this is a man who has no place in any woman’s life, especially not yours. Let him leave and then have a party, otherwise he will continue to bully and abuse you.

JeandeServiette · 19/06/2023 12:36

I'm so sorry. He's plain abusive.

Are you 100% sure about this pregnancy?

cuckyplunt · 19/06/2023 12:39

looks like you are going to be a single parent OP, on the upside you’ll only be looking after one child instead of two.

gamerchick · 19/06/2023 12:41

Abuse is common in pregnancy. It'll get worse if you stay with him OP.

gamerchick · 19/06/2023 12:42

*by abusive men I meant. They know they've got you trapped.

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