is this abuse?
today i was laying on my boyfriends chest in bed and i playfully when to bite him i was going to do it hard, he pushed his fingers into my jaw which hurt so i said ow and slapped him on the chest(not hard). he squeezed and bent my wrist. because he was being mardy i turned his phone off playfully and poked him, he then got up and put my hands on the bed and knelt on my arm with his shin, then squeeze my other wrist, saying am i going to stop it? is that abusive or should i not have been biting/being annoying in the first place?