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Domestic abuse

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NorfolkBird · 20/05/2022 16:00

Me & my partner have lived together since jan 2018 we have had arguments but all couples argue. He got heavily involved in smoking crack he still went to work we moved to the country side over a year ago we thought we would be happier & he calmed down with the drug. We still arged but not physically until yesterday when he used me as a punching bag im covered in bruises I have never been assaulted like that ever im 40. I only work 22 hrs a week I only have £250 in my bank thanks to him. I've just applied for universal credit so that will help with housing. I just want to get away from him has any1 else been in my place?

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BlanketsBanned · 20/05/2022 16:08

You can report this assault to the police and contact womens aid. Do you own or rent your flat, there will be help available but you need to report this and seek medical attention.. smoking crack does not calm anyone down.

Shehasadiamondinthesky · 20/05/2022 16:11

Yes I was a battered wife for 8 years OP, it only stopped when I reported it to the police which you MUST do and get the evidence photographed and they will get him out. You can then claim benefits.
Also call women's aid.
Its scary but you must do it.

Giveitall · 20/05/2022 16:15

You must report this!
What might he do to you next time?
This relationship is not safe.
Kick him into touch. Get out now.

NorfolkBird · 20/05/2022 16:35

We live in rented accommodation. He told me if I argue with him next time he will kick me out. He blames me for every argument we have had. Since the abuse happened I've been in my bedroom all day crying hes not spoken to me. I will go to the police tomorrow

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NorfolkBird · 20/05/2022 16:52

I know I reckon he would really hurt me next time I'm getting out of here ASAP

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GrazingSheep · 20/05/2022 17:00

Can you go to the police today?

SophSoSo · 20/05/2022 17:03

If you call the police they will arrest him and have him removed.

Please call them now you are not safe.

BlanketsBanned · 20/05/2022 17:36

Its not up to him to kick you out if your name is on the lease, you can call the police now and have him removed, you do not need to spend another hour with this abusive drug fuelled bully. Do not ,et him ruin your confidence, you have done nothing wrong.

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