Sorry for this post but I would really appreciate some expert advice. I am 47, right in the middle of peri, haven't had sex for 7 years, suddenly have about 5 white pimple like spots inside vulva. They are not squeezable and more like the milia I get on my face. No pain or itching although I do sometimes get a yellow discharge which has improved with HRT. I had one bout of herpes in my 20s and no return since and also had a Barth cyst a few years ago which spectacularly popped on a plane and needed antibiotics. I live outside the UK and am scared of going to a Dr in case it's a case of herpes and they think I have been unfaithful. I have been with my husband for 20 years and he never caught it before we stopped having sex. Is there any explanation for these milk spot like lumps? I am so grateful for any support, I feel very anxious already from the peri.