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Struggling to orgasm...is there something wrong with me?

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BlueMilk · 19/12/2020 09:11

I’m a lesbian and I really enjoy sex with my partner but it seems to take me forever to orgasm, and sometimes I don’t at all.
I enjoy everything that’s going on and we vary what we do. I sometimes feel like I’m just not that sensitive and maybe I’m damaged in some way...
I get really turned on and wet, and I almost get there most of the time but then seem to lose it.
I even struggle to orgasm through masturbation. I get distracted easily and give up because it takes too long!
Please help!

OP posts:
Sexboardsafename · 22/12/2020 16:58

A lot of orgasm is mental. I can’t orgasm if I don’t shut off my brain. I wonder if there is a way you could relax more?

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