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l16bxt · 29/05/2020 18:11

Hey guys just a quick one. So I’m currently on my period and I have a 28 day cycle . Me and my partner are currently trying for a baby as I had a miscarriage five months ago now.
Each month I come on it can be really upsetting. But I just wanted to know when would you class your period to end the day you stop bleeding or the day after.
Also one more thing. Has anyone had a miscarriage and found it hard to Conceive again?? I feel like I’m doing something wrong

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AllTheUsernamesAreAlreadyTaken · 29/05/2020 19:46

Have you tried using ovulation sticks? I bought some of those cheap ones (something daft like 15 for £2 off eBay) and conceived the first month of trying. My cousin was struggling to conceive her second so I recommend them and it turned out she had been missing her ferrule window by just going by her period, She fell pregnant the first month of trying with ovulation sticks too x

l16bxt · 29/05/2020 23:39

Hello and thank you for your reply. We tried the clear blue last year and they didn't seem to work. But then months after not using them I got caught but then lost my baby.
I feel like it just doesn't want to happen yet.
They say don't they it will happen when the timings right. Sadx

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AllTheUsernamesAreAlreadyTaken · 30/05/2020 07:40

That's true. At least you know you can get pregnant, it's just a matter of when now. I'd definitely still recommend the cheap strip ovulation tests. Good luck xx

l16bxt · 30/05/2020 09:23

Thank you huni.
Have a lovely day xx

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DaisyChainsForever · 30/05/2020 09:39

I ovulate at roughly day 9/10, after the first day of my period. Much earlier than I thought it should be. I fell pregnant 2 months after my 1st mc, then not for a year after my 2nd mc.

l16bxt · 30/05/2020 12:28

Thank you. This helps put my mind at ease... I just feel I can't do anything right. It's just a waiting game x

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DaisyChainsForever · 30/05/2020 12:53

It really is a waiting game. Don't be too hard on yourself, it will happen when your body is ready. x

l16bxt · 30/05/2020 13:25

Aww thank you guys. Means a lot Smile

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Froggles1 · 31/05/2020 19:09

Hey,

Do you track your period at all? Sometimes that can be a good indicator of fertile window. I use Clue which is free. I track until I stop bleeding completely but you can put different types ie spotting.
Sending you lots of luck & hope it happens soon for you xx

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