Me and my partner recently had sex it had been a while because of period and we’ve both be quite ill, so it was slightly painful to start with (nothing that was out of the ordinary) but after I was quite sore and when I wiped bled a little bit not quite sure where from, now 4 days later still quite sore and the odd bit of blood when wiping nothing major and hurts to wipe, (I am in the doctors tomorrow) my child is 4 and I had a 4th degree tear and the pain is in the middle like after I had given birth!