How tight?

[RoseGardenDreams]

I don't know how to word this properly but here goes..

How tight should a vagina be? Before having my child (4 years ago!) I remember it feeling tight with just 1 finger but now it's quite loose and I'm now worried that it's damaged irreparably

I do pelvic floor exercises when I remember but I'm now worried about having a new sexual partner in case there is a loss of sensation there for both of us.

I've had 2 kids and I don't feel as tight as I was before having kids , but there isn't any loss of sensation for me and my husband , sex can be very pleasurable , even before kids I used to have sex and not feel a thing !
If your worried speak to a gyno , I bought some vaginak weights and leave them in for an hour or more and it has made a bit of difference

I've had 4 and could fit a double decker bus up there.

I'm gay though so aren't really bothered.