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Anyone read I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman?

26 replies

SaraCrewe06 · 28/07/2026 14:56

Just finished reading this and would love to discuss it. Very unusual read.

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Theredjellybean · 28/07/2026 14:58

Yes..I read it and thought it was bollocks.
It's very very well reviewed etc...and I read a lot of dystopian future genre.
Still thought it was trite, contrived and silly

MagicThanks · 28/07/2026 15:23

I loved it.

FeliciaFancybottom · 28/07/2026 15:24

I loved it.

MagicThanks · 28/07/2026 15:24

I wanted to know the backstory but thought it was more poetic not knowing because the narrator doesn’t know either. I still think about it. I even worked out how far they walked over the years to see if it was possible they were on Earth (they weren’t)

ButtCheeks · 28/07/2026 15:27

I found it really haunting and disturbing and I wanted to know how it all came about. It stayed with me for a while.

Chemenger · 28/07/2026 15:29

One of my favourite books.

abitbloodybrighteroverthere · 28/07/2026 15:42

It’s on my list … Guess I could bump it up the running order …

Pabbel · 28/07/2026 15:44

I loved it, found it both distrubing and unable to put down.

Screamingabdabz · 28/07/2026 15:46

Theredjellybean · 28/07/2026 14:58

Yes..I read it and thought it was bollocks.
It's very very well reviewed etc...and I read a lot of dystopian future genre.
Still thought it was trite, contrived and silly

Same. I was left feeling quite duped and angry that I wasted my time on it. A completely pointless book.

biedrona · 28/07/2026 15:47

I loved it. I kept hoping she will find other humans eventually...

parietal · 28/07/2026 16:04

Disturbing and I didn’t like it. I found it implausible that she could learn to read and write from letters scratched in dust and then later read and write novels on her own. Also the whole setting was too weird. Is it an allegory for something? But I’m not sure what.

pikachu75 · 28/07/2026 16:09

i thought i would really enjoy it but i came away quite confused and annoyed
bit of a disappointment for me

endofthecorridoor · 28/07/2026 16:49

Yes I did it as an audio book. I actually enjoyed the book but I like a book where you know from the start it’s going nowhere good. However when I thought it over later I was not sure about what it said about women’s capabilities.

DaftNoodle · 28/07/2026 17:49

I was really intrigued by it, I read it in one sitting and couldn’t stop thinking about it for days afterwards.

SaraCrewe06 · 29/07/2026 08:30

SPOILER ALERT

I also loved it but had that mild sense of disappointment that there wasn’t a huge sense of closure. I was rooting for for her to find another human, find out the answers.
I guess that may have been the intention of the author, to offer few answers and make the reader come to their own conclusions.
I love that someone has calculated the distances travelled!
For me, the planet wasn’t Earth.
Why do we think the women (and some men) were sent and kept there?

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chingchang · 29/07/2026 09:06

I read it and I found it frustrating and a bit dull.
I am not great with books that give absolutely no answers at all. This read like the Author had a really good idea for a book, but couldn’t come up with a good idea for “why” so just completely left that bit.

There should have been a bit of an explanation and I found that I felt quite cheated

Yolo12345 · 29/07/2026 09:07

I read it in the original language and it is so beautifully written…not sure what the English translation is like

MagicThanks · 29/07/2026 12:50

Maybe to populate another planet? The sudden departure of the men was interesting, like they’d been found out.

MagicThanks · 29/07/2026 12:50

Yolo12345 · 29/07/2026 09:07

I read it in the original language and it is so beautifully written…not sure what the English translation is like

Also beautifully written

SaraCrewe06 · 29/07/2026 15:40

MagicThanks · 29/07/2026 12:50

Maybe to populate another planet? The sudden departure of the men was interesting, like they’d been found out.

That’s an interesting idea about the men rushing off.
I wonder if the group that escaped had been men what would have happened. More in-fighting?

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MagicThanks · 29/07/2026 20:12

SaraCrewe06 · 29/07/2026 15:40

That’s an interesting idea about the men rushing off.
I wonder if the group that escaped had been men what would have happened. More in-fighting?

Yeah I think more violence

ChelseaBagger · 29/07/2026 20:33

I loved it (it was a thread on here about feminist dystopian novels that put me onto it in the first place - my favourite genre!) I thought it was quite clear from the beginning that it was designed to pose more questions than it would answer.

SaraCrewe06 · 30/07/2026 07:31

@ChelseaBagger
I’ve also enjoyed some feminist dystopian novels. Could you recommend me some more?
I’ve recently read Vox and Femlandia.

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CallItLoneliness · 30/07/2026 07:56

@SaraCrewe06 I can recommend some--obvs you will have read The Handmaid's Tale and the Testaments? I would also recommend 'The School for Good Mothers', 'The Farm', 'Babel' (not totally about women, but race/gender elements to the story), 'The Power', 'Red Clocks', 'Only Ever Yours', 'The End of Men' and 'The Silence Project'.

Can't wait to see what others add to the list!

Cloudmap · 30/07/2026 08:00

'Gather the Daughters.'

Also here for more recommendations!