Slightly off topic but can I ask for your views on book clubs?

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I belong to one.
I joined for social reasons mainly (change in my circs and needed local friends.) But after 2 years I think I've had enough. And no one gets together out of the meetings anyway.

In all that time I have enjoyed about 3-4 books out of all those we read.
It's one choice per month provided by a member.

I feel really disappointed as I love reading and am not short of books I want to read. But I've become tired of reading books I'd never normally choose and am wasting precious time reading them.

Anyone empathise?

I would love to be part of one. I am having the same issue as @myfuckingfreezer, I have searched online and tried meetup, but struggling to find any. Also, the ones on meetup seem to have so many members, it would be overwhelming. Any ideas on how/where to find one would be appreciated.