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29 replies

ThishittyLimeCat · 08/04/2026 12:33

Hi. I'm getting married soon and I am am plus size, 58 and disabled. Since forever I can't just wear a dress without something on top so I posted 2 options, both were shot down and replaced with how about this etc. So please can you lovely ladies please tell me either or, not what about or it doesn't go. Thank you very much.

Either or please.
Either or please.
OP posts:
purpleygrey · 08/04/2026 12:35

I like option 2. Very classy.

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 08/04/2026 12:36

The second one for sure.

brieandcrackers · 08/04/2026 12:36

Oo love opt. 2 - very delicate and pretty!

FadedRed · 08/04/2026 12:36

The lacy one in the right hand side photo is lovely.

firstofallimadelight · 08/04/2026 12:36

Option 2is beautiful and elegant

TeenToTwenties · 08/04/2026 12:37

Option 2, lacy

Lomonald · 08/04/2026 12:37

purpleygrey · 08/04/2026 12:35

I like option 2. Very classy.

Yes this the lacy jacket is perfect.

Doseofreality · 08/04/2026 12:38

The one on the right, perfect.

BelBridge · 08/04/2026 12:39

Option 2 (the lace) looks lovely.

ShetlandishMum · 08/04/2026 12:40

2!

Eeyorefan · 08/04/2026 12:40

Definitely the lacy jacket

Dearover · 08/04/2026 12:41

Def the lace cover up. Love the dress too

7238SM · 08/04/2026 12:43

Option 2 the lace one.

TheSandgroper · 08/04/2026 12:44

Option 2. Unless you are looking for cold day. If you are getting it made for you, perhaps a soft colour might be good. As I get older, my Irish type skin looks very washed out in straight white. But the dress is lovely.

VaughanMorgan · 08/04/2026 12:46

Option 2 again and you look beautiful!
Have a lovely day.

DancingFerret · 08/04/2026 12:46

Option 2 for sure.

ThisSideOfTheMississippi · 08/04/2026 12:50

Option 2 definitely.

The first one looks like you got cold and borrowed your new husbands jacket. Option 2 looks like it really goes well with the dress.

Have a lovely day.

TheBewleySisters · 08/04/2026 12:56

Agree - option 2.

Fifthtimelucky · 08/04/2026 12:57

ThisSideOfTheMississippi · 08/04/2026 12:50

Option 2 definitely.

The first one looks like you got cold and borrowed your new husbands jacket. Option 2 looks like it really goes well with the dress.

Have a lovely day.

I agree with this!

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 08/04/2026 12:58

Congratulations, and no.2.

You’ll look beautiful and you’ll feel beautiful.

wizzler · 08/04/2026 12:58

Option 2

jellyfish798 · 08/04/2026 13:00

Option 2, gorgeous and elegant

RAA2026 · 08/04/2026 13:06

OPTION 2 IS BEAUTIFUL.

Forresty · 08/04/2026 13:08

Option 2 for sure. Option 1 is too boxy, whereas with option 2 you get a nice nod to a wedding train, with the white lace.

Randomchat · 08/04/2026 13:09

Also option 2.
Gorgeous dress, I love it