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Help! I can’t decide!

27 replies

ukMummyof · 12/02/2026 21:38

They are both pretty much the same in the bottom. 1st has thin traps and is more plain but you could add a blingy belt the and 2nd Is all bling on the top and strapless

Help! I can’t decide!
Help! I can’t decide!
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Toddlerteaplease · 12/02/2026 21:40

1, they are both nice but number 2 has two much flesh on show.

YourWinter · 12/02/2026 21:40

Definitely the first, and it doesn’t need any bling.

RandomMess · 12/02/2026 21:41

The 1st it looks much more classy & timeless

unbelievablybelievable · 12/02/2026 21:41

No. 2 looks like the top hasn't been finished.

Slowcooknocook · 12/02/2026 21:41

Number 1.

123123again · 12/02/2026 21:42

All you can see is boob with no 2, it look too small on top. I do prefer the ruffles.

I looks really nice on you.

Slowcooknocook · 12/02/2026 21:43

I also think the top of number 2 looks unfinished. It looks to me like lacy underwear but possibly my eyesight could be better.

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/02/2026 21:43

Definitely 1, 2 does not look comfortable

AyeDeadOn · 12/02/2026 21:43

1 without a doubt

ukMummyof · 12/02/2026 21:48

Thanks so much everyone! This has really helped! Quick question… do you think the ruffles look ‘wedding(y)’ enough or like I’m going to prom? 🤣

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MabelAnderson · 12/02/2026 21:49

1 is the best, it looks lovely.

katmunchkin · 12/02/2026 21:52

1, I think it is lovely. The ruffles are definitely not too promy!

onlyoneoftheregimentinstep · 12/02/2026 21:52

Love no. 1

ukMummyof · 12/02/2026 21:53

This is another pic I’ve just found of number 2 with the veil which is probably clearer than the other one. I really appreciate the opinions!

Help! I can’t decide!
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raspberrysparkles · 12/02/2026 21:58

1 - gorgeous

Applecharlotte2 · 12/02/2026 22:00

Definitely 1

2 looks like it’s too small and your falling out of it

its squeezing you and making your bodice and arms look chunky

I love the bodice in 1 - so much nicer

Princessofpumpkins · 12/02/2026 22:02

Number 1. Amazing how much better it looks. Elegant and requiring no bling, the appeal is in the lovely lines and how well it fits you. Number two makes you look an entire dress size bigger….. I’ve definitely learned that it’s very important to get the right dress on the right fit…. Those two photographs really demonstrate this. Absolutely go with number one.

Blueuggboots · 12/02/2026 22:02

Love the top on number 1, but don’t like the skirt.

Toddlerteaplease · 12/02/2026 22:26

Doesn’t look like a prom dress. It’s classy.

123123again · 13/02/2026 20:14

Op if you prefer no 2, just go with it.
All dresses date don’t they.
Where what you want on the day and enjoy looking back on it in 20 years.

worldshottestmom · 13/02/2026 20:16

ukMummyof · 12/02/2026 21:38

They are both pretty much the same in the bottom. 1st has thin traps and is more plain but you could add a blingy belt the and 2nd Is all bling on the top and strapless

Would just like to say you look absolutely stunning in both, they compliment your figure really nicely. It really depends on what you are going for. As others have said, 1 is very classy, elegant, timeless. 2 is more sexy, fun, glitz and glam. Which one do you like best?

Harrietsaunt · 13/02/2026 20:16

One

worldshottestmom · 13/02/2026 20:19

ukMummyof · 12/02/2026 21:53

This is another pic I’ve just found of number 2 with the veil which is probably clearer than the other one. I really appreciate the opinions!

Honestly I love this one, perhaps the original photo didnt do it the justice it deserves. I vote 2, its sexy, pretty, yet still elegant with the full bottom and veil to cover shoulders. I always thought wedding dresses should have some sparkle to them, it gives it that finishing touch, yano?

ukMummyof · 13/02/2026 20:35

worldshottestmom · 13/02/2026 20:19

Honestly I love this one, perhaps the original photo didnt do it the justice it deserves. I vote 2, its sexy, pretty, yet still elegant with the full bottom and veil to cover shoulders. I always thought wedding dresses should have some sparkle to them, it gives it that finishing touch, yano?

What lovely comments. Thank you!

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Topjoe19 · 13/02/2026 20:36

One.
You look fabulous!