Cousin I used to be close to as a child but haven’t seen in 30+ years is getting married at the end of May. It’s just an immediate family event with a much bigger party in August. Should I send the card and small gift in time for the May, or the August event?
If it makes a difference I certainly wasn’t expecting an invite to the big party but something someone recently said suggested I might. Not sure I’d go, it’s 500 miles away, but I might.