Doubts

[Everchanging24]

Get married in six months and having doubts he doesn’t help around the house and has never cooked it’s been ten years now.
Im getting sick of it and drained with it I’ve asked him and he says he works a hard job which I get but my jobs hard four kids and I don’t work due to illness.

I don’t know if I want this for the rest of my life I know we should of spoke about this and I have asked numerous times for help and he does it for a day or two then goes back.
How can I cancel this wedding now without setting off a bomb.

Well, no, because she’ll lose one big child

Don't go through with it.
You've had 10 years of being his mother and you'll have the rest of your life being contractually obliged to him.

Money wise will be worse off without him.

If I go out I come home to mess and nothing done. I had my dinner at 9 last night after I took one child to football the youngest was still up and I had to sort her and then clean then cook my dinner.
felt like crying it’s half term it’s hard work I’ve turned into this down trodden woman and because I don’t work at the moment it’s all on me. I’ve got MS and get good and bad days.