just received an invite to friend’s wedding in August. Can’t wait to go, but it’s the first I’ve been to and it says arrive an hour before the ceremony. Is this normal we have a 10 year old who can cope but is questioning what happens on the day ie why dessert is 3 hours later (the cake cutting ) and why isn’t it a fried breakfast at the ‘wedding breakfast’. We’ll sort those expectations but not sure what happens in this first hour are we expected to sit for that whole time or milling etc?