Yes I know I am an adult and it's up to me but...
would it look odd to have the flower girl and bridesmaids with a posy of white flowers (fg smaller) the MOH with one of those arm held ones in different flowers but still white, and the bride with white and a colour in the flowers?
The only weddings I have been to have them all the same as each other apart from in size.
I've made so many decisions now I'm doubting my judgment (and sanity!)