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Non traditional hen do ideas?

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bells2810 · 20/01/2023 22:46

I was wondering if anyone has any ideas for a hen do that doesn’t involve a night out/drinking. I don’t drink and I’m not one for big nights out and parties, I’m trying to think of an idea for my hen do that doesn’t involve drinking. I’m only going to ask my bridesmaids and a few close friends, so probably 10 people max.

Suggestions so far have been a spa day/afternoon tea, but I feel like these are things my friends and I would do for a birthday, I’m trying to think of something a little bit different but still a nice occasion and special. I also don’t want it to be too expensive!

If anyone has any suggestions I’d be very grateful 😊

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PotteringAlonggotkickedoutandhadtoreregister · 20/01/2023 22:47

I went bowling for my hen do! And then to the pub next door for tea.

Shoemadlady · 20/01/2023 22:49

Roller disco? Or lovely country Walk and special lunch after?

GoldilockMom · 20/01/2023 22:50

Pottery painting?
Baking - lots of cookery courses available and Champaign provided for those that drink.

Laquila · 20/01/2023 22:52

Theatre or musical trip
Lesson in something unusual for you, e.g. sushi-making, off-roading, kayaking etc
Walking pub/cafe crawl in the countryside somewhere
Cycling tour of a cool city
Hire a boat (clutching at straws a bit here)
Hire a private chef for a lovely BBQ or dinner at home

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 20/01/2023 22:52

Alton Towers

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 20/01/2023 22:52

Hire a barge on the Norfolk broads

PotteringAlonggotkickedoutandhadtoreregister · 20/01/2023 22:54

Axe throwing!

escape room?

life drawing?

user1494050295 · 20/01/2023 22:55

Depending on when a surfing weekend

DestinysGrandchild · 20/01/2023 22:58

I've been to some ...

Escape room
Water park/outside water inflatables
Go ape
Crazy golf
Skating

Probably a normal day out to some but we all had fun and non of us were drunk at the end.

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 20/01/2023 22:59

I and the bride's family arranged a bus tour of our home city taking in all the sights that meant something to the bride. For example, here's where xxxx was baptised, here's where she went to school, here's where her went on her first date etc etc. It was a hoot. Everyone joined in and pointed out significant places of their own. There was a piss up good night out as well. Not a plastic penis in sight!

treadcarefully · 03/02/2023 19:53

Like you my daughter doesn't drink. She decided to have a matinee theatre trip and a meal out afterwards. Home by 9, she loved it!

slug · 03/02/2023 19:57

Another vote for axe throwing. We did it for my friend's hen do. You are not allowed to drink while throwing. Much hilarity ensued

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