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Guests problems

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Mayley03 · 05/08/2022 01:26

Hi im getting married at a venue where we stay fri to mon getting married on the sat were staying in 2 houses on the venue site in one house my family and a few friends in the other house my fiance friends and there wifes .

My fiance friend wife messaged me saying 3 of my fiance mates wifes got a hair dresser coming to our venue to do there hair .im i wrong or over reacting but i think this is taking the biscuit there only guest and they have arrange for there own hairdresser to attend my wedding venue to do there hair this has really up set me and i wouldnt dream of doing it .i just want other peoples thoughts on this

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Mayley03 · 05/08/2022 08:19

Thank you

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Mayley03 · 05/08/2022 08:23

Thank you to all those who have been understanding and have been nice with feed back i see it differently now and feels much better .

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PutinIsAWarCriminal · 05/08/2022 08:27

Craver · 05/08/2022 02:17

Don't know about hairdressing but your grammar is atrocious. "Their" hair not "there". Sorry but had to point it out.

No you didn't @Craver. Dick move.
Enjoy your wedding op! 🥂

Rainbowqueeen · 05/08/2022 08:31

Have a wonderful day OP.
lovely to see that your guests are getting into the spirit and making a lot of effort

gogohmm · 05/08/2022 08:33

What's the issue? Plenty of people go to the hairdresser before a wedding

Sniffypete · 05/08/2022 08:35

Mayley03 · 05/08/2022 01:34

Thank you for your input maybe im just over reacting

Yes you are definitely overreacting.

TokyoTen · 05/08/2022 08:37

Pleased you see it differently now OP. Have a great day!!

Motnight · 05/08/2022 08:37

Have a great day, Op!

lastminutedotcom22 · 05/08/2022 08:48

Mayley03 · 05/08/2022 01:34

Thank you for your input maybe im just over reacting

I can't believe what I'm reading

Stop being so precious and just think these women are making a huge effort to look nice for YOUR wedding at THEIR expense

You need to get a grip bridezilla this is absolutely pathetic. Like I said I Can't believe what I'm reading

sunglassesonthetable · 05/08/2022 12:26

You need to get a grip bridezilla this is absolutely pathetic. Like I said I Can't believe what I'm reading

What you didn't read where the bride said she was getting stressed and now sees it totally differently?? ( Something you don't see a lot of on MN )

OP has totally got a grip but you don't seem to be able to read.

Just around for a pile on @lastminutedotcom22 ?

SalviaOfficinalis · 05/08/2022 12:33

Glad you feel better about it OP. Weddings are stressful and it’s hard to keep perspective sometimes.

My advice to you is not to keep checking this thread (after my post of course 😁)

You’ve got nothing more to gain from it and there will be lots of people who won’t read your updates and will just take the opportunity to be unnecessarily harsh. No point stressing yourself out by reading them.

sunglassesonthetable · 05/08/2022 13:35

Agree with @SalviaOfficinalis OP. Just hide this thread now.

Some people will just want to have a go. See below. Doubt you need any more stress.

beachcitygirl · 05/08/2022 18:55

Hope you have a lovely day OP.
Such gracious responses from you, you were stressed, asked for opinion, received it with thanks & have altered your opinion. You're worth 10 of the mean girls or grammar goblins
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