Wedding is in 5 weeks (we've left everything last min I know!!)
There are 6 groomsmen in total that includes best man, DS, 2 ushers and fathers
Originally they were all going to have waistcoats etc but recently 2 of them said they weren't keen. My second plan is this - my partner and DS have waistcoats and the rest of the groomsmen just have jacket, shirt, tie and trousers.
Question is would this be weird - first wedding and never attended one before so flying blind!!!