Hi there I am getting married next June and will have a 9 year old and an 18 month old. I. Just wondering what did people do if they had their own kids at their wedding. All our family and friends will be there so I am a bit stuck as what I I do. The 9 year old will be fine but the 18 month old will be going to bed around 8 and will need looking after for the rest of the night and since they won't be staying on our room at the hotel what do people do ?