How much did your OH do?

[Sadbridetobe]

Or if you’re not yet married how much is he doing?

I’ve sat and made a list of all the things that still need to be planned and organised for our wedding and it’s actually making me angry that I’m doing this all alone. There’s not a single thing that he could organise.

Is this the norm? Even the music etc I’ll have to decide on everything myself.

We're just in talks about it so far but I've made my spreadsheet 😂

I think if you want him to do something you'll have to ask. Most men don't really think of all the details unless they're told. Depends how much you want him to do as well. I'm quite happy choosing stuff and then asking him if he agrees and he almost always says yes.

Haha! I have been told to just chose what I like and apparently I'm in charge of everything and he's happy to pay(this is a joke as it's our joint money). I can do that I love to plan things myself and have them exactly the way I like! Then I can't be annoyed with anyone else if it's not up to my standards or if it's not what I wanted.

He did everything. I just turned up. Vegas!

50/50