So we're getting married with only 20 guests. I know that a smaller wedding can sometimes mean some of the aspects of a bigger wedding don't happen. However, I would still like to have a first dance and then a "disco" afterwards. The wedding is in a hotel and we're having a small room so a DJ or band would be too much so I was thinking of just playing music through a laptop connected to speakers. My fiance thinks it's a bad idea, people will feel awkward and it won't feel like a proper party without a DJ or band. He thinks we should just have background music, people can just chat all evening.
What do you think? Did you have a disco at your small wedding or have you been to one? Please tell me your opinions and experiences!