I got married nearly 12 years ago and was fortunate not to be in need of most of this advice, but it is great advice, especially if you have some difficult relationships among family or friends, someone is being judgemental/pressuring about your wedding, or any other general emotional pressure to use the wedding to try to 'make things right' when you are under no such obligation.
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