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Dads wedding and I'm not invited

7 replies

seccles90 · 20/05/2018 17:47

What are people's thoughts about who decides who is playing what role bridesmaid etc and who can come to the wedding.
My Partner Just found out this person isn't her biological father although She did still see him as it as he brought her up. Anyway his partner has caused problems between them both since she has asked her sister to be bridesmaid didn't ask her and tell her She found out by family member. When she asked him he said it was his partners choice and nothing to do with him it was her choice!!!
I'm asking what people's thoughts are because my partner thinks she's the one going mad by being angry upset and hurt and she thinks it's the groom and the bride not just the bride what do you people think

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Kidssendingmenuts · 20/05/2018 18:03

It's the bride who chooses the bridesmaids and the groom chooses his groomsmen. Always been that way.

Bumbumtaloo · 20/05/2018 18:05

The bride chooses her bridal party. Both decide who’s invited.

kissthealderman · 20/05/2018 18:07

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Redglitter · 20/05/2018 18:08

Bridesmaids are the bride's decision

Belindabauer · 25/05/2018 00:45

Yes the bride chooses the bridesmaids.

MaggieFS · 25/05/2018 10:47

DH and I chose all of the bridesmaids, ushers, readers etc together, but ultimately I don't think he would have forced a bridesmaid on me.

HappyLollipop · 25/05/2018 10:52

Bride chooses the bridesmaids and the groom his groomsmen, her dads right it's not his decision who she chooses as her bridesmaids.

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