How do I not become a blubbering mess during our vows.....

[Tobleronemonster]

.....and speeches

Honestly, the closer it's getting, the more I'm realising it's entirely possible I might make an absolute tit out of myself, from walking down the aisle, to saying our vows, to the speeches, by blubbing through the whole thing.

I'm fairly sure DP will be similar and it's just not practical

Does anyone have any tips on how to limit the emotions? Should we practice beforehand? Should I focus really hard on something that really winds me up about her?

Seriously! Any tips will be VERY much appreciated!

TIA

Well, “from this moment on” was when I was walking up the aisle, and walking back down newly married together we had a piper who played ‘highland cathedral’- am in Scotland, and our first dance was ‘the northern lights of auld Aberdeen!’
(Bit outing!😳)
Not sure if that’s to your taste!🤣

Thanks 4mo what about you op x