25 th anniversary

[grandmat]

Hi I'm coming up 25 years in August and been through a really bad time , my husband as miloproliferative ( blood cancer ) diagnosed when he was 34 after 11 years of marriage and subsequently we lost everything .we have never ever recovered financially and are now back in a council house with me not working as I'm his full time carer . We used to both work full time and have a lovely home but through Ill health it's all gone .
I'm panicked as so many people keep asking me what we're planning for our anniversary

Perfectly fine to answer, "We are celebrating but just the two of us".
Considering the hand fate has dealt your DH health-wise I'm glad you have each other.
You could ask them what they are planning for you!

Thankyou -:) do you think that's okay and serous I know for now he's still here and that's a lot to be grateful for ; but without going into detail he's on chemo for life and we really have had a dreadful time . Thankyou