Brides and/or brides-to-be, please can you help. I'm off to a wedding with a wishing well for gifts. What would you be hoping for - money (as in a stack of twenties or similar) or a gift voucher for John Lewis or Mr and Mrs Smith or somewhere in that vein? this is the first one I've had where the well isn't "for" something, eg honeymoon, so I feel a bit unsure what would be best.