I'm in the process of writing my thank you notes to people who bought us gifts for our wedding. I'm planning on sending nice, personalised notes to people who attended and bought gifts; attended and bought a card; didn't attend but sent gifts.
But what about people who didn't attend but sent a card? I feel like I should thank them for their kind wishes.
Also what about people who attended but didn't give a card or gift? Should I thank them for coming?