sorry to go on about this for everyone that contributed to my previous thread... we would like contributions to our honeymoon instead of gifts, but it's not really a honeymoon (children in tow, ferry and then a couple of weeks in a villa) so it doesn't really fit the Trailfinders model.
with Bottom Drawer you can ask for money and either buy through their partners or for £89 get all gifts transferred to you, which sounds like it would suit us. all the online reviews i've looked at have been great.
anyone used them? tia