Everyone says 'do what you want' 'it is your day'. We have so many ideas and they aren't all that aligned. That said he's very sweet and says we can do what I want, but I want it to be a bit of both. He doesn't want it to drive a wedge between us, but seems to think it is, even though we've only chatted for 15 minutes. He doesn't seem keen on sitting down and talking about it (and I'd never get him to write a list!!)
Anyone got some advice to make it work?