Some friends are renewing their vows, and I'm struggling a bit on the etiquette, clothes wise we're dressing as for a wedding as it's at a nice hotel and the "bride" is wearing a wedding dress, so that's fine.
Do you send a card? Can you get wedding vow renewal cards? I've looked in a couple of card shops and I can't see any.
And what about a gift? Naturally they don't need anything as they've been married for years. We've thought about a case of wine, and thought we'd drop it over to them a few days beforehand, does this seem OK.