can i give an 8 monh old grapes

[pud1]

my bil says they are a chocking hazard. am i ok to give them chopped into quarters. i will obvoiusly supervise her eating them

Chopped into quarters is fine!

Yes chopped into quarters.

i just halve them myself

(living on the wildside here)

Chopped in half is fine, as long as you cut them down the long side, not across as I've seen some people pointlessly do .

As long as you cut them in half they are fine. Just remember not to crush them in a large vat, leave them to ferment over many months and then give them her to in a glass. That would be bad.