My ds is 8 months and bfed. I have tried the blw route with him so each family mealtime he is in his chair at the table and given a selection of what we have and he helps himself to what he wants. He generally follows this routine:
6.30am - Breastmilk
8.00am - breakfast
10.00am - breastmilk & nap
12.00 - lunchtime
1.00pm - breastmilk & nap
4.30pm - breastmilk (& nap sometimes)
5.30pm - dinner
7.30pm - breastmilk and bedtime
2.00am - breastmilk - occasionally
Did a search and lots of sites said that only 1 solid meal a day. He eats a wide variety of foods, garlic bread, olives, lots of fruit, pasta and tomato sauces, wraps, bread etc. I am now thinking that i should skip his breakfast and give him breastmilk and the same for either lunch or dinnertime.
When he does nurse he is often at the breast for an hour (same breast still producing milk and not empty) then we swap to the other.
He has following 91st centile and i havent recently had him weighed but he appears healthy. He is standing, crawling, cruising etc and seems very content.
I dont want to give him too many solid feeds and want to follow him. All i seem to do is feed and nap with him. I have an 8 year old as well and he is really taking a back seat.