How do you wean a second child onto dairy products when you have a dairy intolerant toddler inthe house?

[MuffinMclay]

Going to start weaning ds2 soon. I am working on the assumption that he doesn't have a dairy intolerance, but time will tell. Ds2 (2.3 years) is dairy intolerant, but loves cheese, yoghurts, and all the things he isn't allowed.

How on earth can I give these things to ds2 without upsetting ds1? Do I have to feed ds2 in secret?

Couldn't you just have two types of yoghurts? He wouldn't need to see the cheese would he, if you're adding it to food. Two of mine have dairy free yoghurts the rest of us have dairy. We all know whose is whose.

Pesky child won't eat the dairy free yoghurts.