My dad 9months has been eating purees mashed food, and I've gradually been starting to introduce finger food. She does great with melty sticks, banana, avocado, melty wafers etc. But I just can't bring myself to give her anything more difficult. I'm a nervous wreck. She choked on toast and since then I'm too scared. I've tried baby led weaning charts etc. She easily gags and the second she does I absolutely panic (I know it's not choking) but she also flings her head back when she eats which adds to my nerves of choking.
Any help or advice as I don't want to get her stuck on purees and I think she is capable I just need to overcome the fear.