I have a 21 month old son that I've gently weaned during the day, but I'm struggling to stop BF to sleep at nap time or back to sleep through the night. Knowing I have another baby coming in July, I really want to gently wean my son from being BF to sleep because I know I'll be occupied and won't be able to respond when this new child arrives. I'm such a softie I can't do cold turkey....I know he can go down to sleep without BF because others have put him to bed without problems (bloody kids!)....anyone got any words of wisdom??