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mentioned blw to hv today...

29 replies

Ilovemyboy · 26/03/2007 20:50

She didn't know what it was and told me that she didn't recommend it.

She asked me questions like 'why would you want to do that?'. V.patronising and told me that I 'must' spoonfeed and introduce pureed food first. This was in front of a load of people at the baby clinic. She made me feel like a silly little girl and I started blushing and looking back, because I was put on the spot I was struggling to explain my reasons for wanting to do it and the benefits which must have made it look even more like I didn't know what I was doing.

She offered me the NHS weaning booklet and I told her I didn't want it as I had done my own research. I was getting quite arsey by this point tbh. I told her to look on Aitch's website for more info and she wrote it down. Ha!

I am fuming tbh. Not at all because she didn't know what it was...but because of the way she handled it in the 'I know better' old-skool hv way.

This is the same hv that told me that I would never make it to 6mths exc bf as DS is a big baby (thanks for the encouragement love!) and told me that I looked tired in front of everybody. What mum wants to hear that when their baby is going through a growth spurt?

Bitchface!!!

Btw, I don't want to come across as a hv-hater to all the hvs on the board. The hv at my bf group is bloody marvellous.

OP posts:
AitchYouBerk · 26/03/2007 22:03

when i told my mum i was going to 'do' BLW she phsl and said 'how do you think your wee sister made it through the weaning stage?' if you've got four children you've not got time for spoon feeding.

(actually, that's not strictly true, she initially fretted about the choking thing. then she remembered about my sis).

GingGangGooley · 26/03/2007 22:45

I haven't got DD weighed since weaning! lol! tbh i haven't even spoke to the hv i just get her weighed and leave.

Oh and she's never had a check up either and i found out why after ringing the doctors... they accidently un-registered her at the surgery? WTF! so I have to sort that out now.

I am going to try and go this thursday (on thurs round here) but i say that every week and still haven't managed it! but i really feel i have enough knowledge for her to quiz me about my choice of weaning method now! lol

Can't believe she was so rude!!!

mrsjohnsim · 26/03/2007 22:53

my HV said "that's interesting, but you should probably start with the purees then move onto the BLW thing" so i siad "thanks for your time" and smiled and left

come the revolution they know who they are- up againts the wall and the anti-spoonistas will rule HAHAHAHA

jetjets · 27/03/2007 09:56

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