I've followed loads of advice and let my DD make a massive mess at each meal. This has been going on for some time now. I'm starting to worry that she thinks food is for playing rather than eating! Seriously, she's getting better about putting food in her mouth (even used cutlery this week(my handing her a small fork with food on it)), but when is this going to get neater? Someone please talk me off the ledge....as I go down to scrub down high chair and soak safety harness to clean it.