I'm just about to start solids with dd2. Dd1 took to mush really happily, ds never took mush at all. I'm currently steaming some sweet potato and a butternut squash. Blw (although I didn't know that was what it was called!) meant ds picking bits up with his hands and eating. But is there any harm in offering dd2 some furnish purée? I'll be led by her in that if she doesn't want it I won't push it. And does butternut sound like a good first food? It's been a while-feeling like a beginner...